Editor’s Note: I’ve become extremely exasperated with myself because try as I might, I can’t seem to find the remainder of my photographs taken during my American vacations. I did succeed in finding two, so I’m including them in this post.
I’ve developed a love-hate affair with airports, over the course of my years abroad. On the one hand, they are the saddest places on Earth when you have to say goodbye to loved ones. On the other hand, they can be the happiest places when you see someone you love waving at you in the Arrivals area. I’ve been in a lot of airports—Singapore’s Changi, Rome’s Leonardo da Vinci, Athens’ Hellinikon, Paris’ Charles de Gaulle, Amsterdam’s Schiphol, London’s Heathrow, Tokyo’s Narita, Chicago O’Hare, Los Angeles, and of course, San Francisco. This last one was pure déjà vu for me, because the following year (December 1983) I arrived in this city again.
This time I was the guest of Karl and Anita, two German friends who had known my parents for a few years. When my parents told them that I was in Arizona over the Christmas period, they said that it would be cruel for someone to spend Christmas all alone, so I was invited to their home in Fremont, California, which again wasn’t far from the Bay Area. I remembered that Karl worked with Intel at the San Jose headquarters, and he showed up at the airport with his white Mercedes Benz! Karl undoubtedly, was a German through and through. They had a very nice house in Fremont, and I was shown to a guest room with all things, an electronic organ (see the picture below) Moreover, I spotted a typewriter (remember what that is?) on a desk. “Type a letter to your parents when you feel like it,” Karl said, jokingly.
Of course I played the organ too, and Karl and Anita were smiling, having some music flow through their house (both of them don’t play the organ, don’t ask me why) I did enjoy my vacation with them, as they did take me to various places in the Bay Area. I remember Carmel very vividly, because they had a famous mayor—Clint Eastwood. And secondly, the Pacific scenery especially at this time of the year, was breathtaking. I also managed to call up the Dyers and exchanged greetings with them.
However, this time I was hungry for more. Before I left Tucson, I had thoughts of visiting (wait for it) Hawaii! So this time I would be spending Christmas in San Francisco and the New Year in Honolulu. And guess what? My parents to the rescue again (hurray for parents!) They had a Malaysian friend called Bennett who had his own business in Honolulu. Again, Bennett was very kind and said yes, he would love to have me over. So just after Christmas, I said my goodbyes (here’s that airport love-hate thingy again) to Karl and Anita, and boarded my flight to Honolulu.
The instant I landed in Honolulu, I knew I was going to like this place. The weather was a balmy 75°F with moderate winds—just perfect! Bennett was at the arrivals area to pick me up. I was garlanded on arrival and it felt nice. We were shortly cruising down the Nimitz Highway to the city and Bennett’s apartment. In contrast to Karl’s place in Fremont, Bennett’s apartment was quite spartan, but comfortable. He’d stocked up his fridge with a ton of frozen TV dinners!
Of course Bennett took me around to see the sights, like Diamond Head, Waikiki Beach (very popular spot, always crowded), we even saw the Governor’s residence (which doubled as Police headquarters in the TV series Hawaii Five-O) We went swimming in Hanauma Bay, where the water was so clear and blue, and fish were swimming in and around us! We also went to the northern part of Oahu to see the Banzai Pipeline. I had never seen such huge waves in my life, ever! And no, I didn’t try surfing.
Anyway, the fun part was when Bennett had to go to the Big Island on business. He was so kind to give me free rein of his apartment and his trusty Toyota. All I had to do was grab a map of Honolulu (no GPS yet), put some gas in the tank, and off I went! Ah, that was the life! I was out exploring the city, the malls, etc. and loving it, although I was alone. When Bennett returned, we spent New Year’s Eve at a hotel, he had his own group of friends, and the atmosphere was one of fun.
However, it was now time to return to reality, and to Tucson. Again, I had to say a sad goodbye to Bennett and wonderful Hawaii. That’s why I still have a love-hate relationship with airports up till today.

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