Valentine’s at the 1885

Call it schmaltzy, bah humbug, or what you will, Valentine’s Day is and always has been a special day for lovebirds everywhere. Me? Umm, I’ll remain perfectly neutral on this one but I’ll tell you this—it’s always nice to see couples having fun and enjoying each other’s company, on this day or any other day. And if they’re prepared to splurge, so be it. The Valentine’s Day dinner at the 1885 fine dining (E & O Hotel) isn’t exactly what I’d call cheap, but for the price you get a lavish meal, some gifts including a Polaroid picture (yup, we still have those), and not to mention (ahem) soothing romantic tunes played on the piano by yours truly. With a great staff and Mr. Z as the captain, what else could you need? So onward and upward to the pictures, all taken with my Canon gear, of course. Nothing like flowers to set the mood and hearts fluttering.

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(Below) Balloons galore; love the heart-shaped ones.

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(Above) Gifts of chocolate for each couple, beautifully done with gold ribbons.

(Below) These pictures were taken by expert photographer Eugene when I finished for the evening. Great people and great staff!

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(Above) It was nice to meet up with Ria and her husband Ben again, who are regular guests of the hotel.

(Below) Here I am with Siti…

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and with Sally; oopsie I need to get a haircut…

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(Below) Eugene and Siti having fun in front of the camera.

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It was a great and fun evening, so here’s looking forward to Valentine’s in 2013! Open-mouthed smile

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Soliloquy

A lot has changed in my life these past two years. For a start I got out of a very unhealthy relationship—it took a lot of guts and courage but I did it. At the end of this month the divorce will be final and I will be a free man. It was initially very very stressful mentally, emotionally, and physically—to the point where I had to take some meds. And don’t forget the pain. That’s something that I wouldn’t want to go through again, ever. Pain however, is inevitable when going through a major crisis such as this. Suffering, as they say, is optional. Nonetheless, I suffered deep inside for a long time. Going through all this pain and suffering has taught me some good lessons though.

For one thing, I reconnected with something I had loved to do in the past—reading. I bought a whole ton of books and became a self-help junkie. I’ve read everyone from Eckhart Tolle to Regina Brett to Rhonda Byrne and many others. Believe me, they all helped in their own extraordinary ways. I’ve simplified my life and jettisoned the excess baggage of the past. It’s only water under the bridge after all. There’s also no need to ponder about what the future will bring (I believe it will bring good things) because the only time we have is now.

Gratitude has become a way of life for me. Instead of moaning and complaining about what I don’t have I constantly remind myself to be thankful for what I do. Every day when I wake up and go to sleep at night I say a thank you to God and the universe. Try it, it works. Just finding even one thing to be thankful for every day will change the way you see life (and how life sees you!)

I’ve decided to run my own race, to pursue my own dreams…regardless of how others see it. I’m always grateful for the unflinching support I get from my small circle of close friends. As for those people who want to pass judgment about the way I run my life, well it’s really none of their business, is it.

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I’ve got my Ferrari!

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Gawd, this is scary…in a nice way. You see, I’ve been debating about purchasing Robin Sharma’s The Monk who sold his Ferrari. I’ve heard good things about this book but never took the trouble to look for it until recently (this is where the scary part begins). Two days ago I was at the bookstore and thumbing through it. I was so close to buying when a tiny voice inside me said “Hold on. Don’t buy it yet.” OK, so I didn’t. Then yesterday I was at the bookstore again, looking for another book when I stumbled across this same book. The tiny voice reappeared and repeated the same message. So again I held off making a purchase.

Today my student Sabrina came for her piano lesson and she asked me, “Have you got your Ferrari?” I was a little shocked and said “Umm, no. Why?” She pulled this book out of her bag and said, “Well you can borrow mine then.” I was like…!!! Not that I resented paying for my own copy (it’s only about $10 USD after all) but now I’ve saved some money. Not too bad, savvy?

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Quiet: The Power of Introverts

Just spotted this book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a world that can’t stop talking by Susan Cain in Amazon. It looks very intriguing and interesting (watch the video below) so I daresay this could be my next book order.

You can even take a simple online 12-question quiz at Susan’s website here. I took it and I wasn’t surprised to find that I’m a complete introvert (and I love it!)

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And check out Ward Sutton’s excellent graphic review of Susan’s book. Click here or the picture below.

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The Electrician

A few years ago, I was engaged in a conversation with my ex-boss when he remarked about my job position in the hotel. He said very casually, “You’re the electrician.” I was caught by surprise. Umm, I’m a pianist, or at the very least a musician. Not an electrician. My ex-boss didn’t elaborate. I didn’t quiz him about it. So we left it at that. Now I know what he meant.

Everybody takes electricity for granted, especially in an establishment like a hotel. Everybody takes it for granted, that is, until something happens and the juice runs out. No problem, the staff say. “Let’s call the electrician.” The guy comes along, ascertains the problem to be one of the circuits in the main electricity panel boxes, fixes it, and…we have power, folks. If the guy isn’t there or available for some reason, then we have a problem. But until such a situation happens the electrician pretty much isn’t in anybody’s thoughts.

I guess what can be gleaned from this is that we’re all important, in one way or another. We all have a role to play on this Earth, no matter how small we think it might be. For a long time I thought of myself as just a pianist. Another guy may think of himself as only a janitor. A clerk. A paper boy. A ______ (fill in the blank) We’re all interconnected, in one way or another. I might just be a pianist, but I like to think that I have given pleasure and comfort to people who listen to my music—I can recall numerous occasions when friends and even strangers have come up to me and said they appreciated my music.

There’s this guy who looks after the restrooms in the hotel. He’s quiet, looks foreign and probably doesn’t know much English, but each time we meet we exchange a smile and a hello. And with that, two people connect albeit for a brief moment. I guess no matter how bad his day has been he still acts in a cordial manner towards me. And you know what—I respond likewise. I feel good, and I’m sure he does too.

If we can treat people nicely in a simple way such as this, we can treat our lives in the same manner. Of course we have our up days and our down days, but believe me, you attract what you feel and say. If you wake up and tell yourself, “This is going to be a shitty day,” guess what—it’s probably going to be exactly that. If you think that this is just spiritual, new age rubbish, think again. This is fact. It’s actually the law of attraction. You attract what you think.

Norman Vincent Peale has one of the best quotes about this: “Change your thoughts and you change your world.” Of course it might not change immediately; time has no hold on the universe and whatever is going to happen in our lives will happen in its own course. However, we have to set the stage for it. So the question is—how do you see your world? How do you paint it? Choose your colors wisely. Paint the world in dull tones of gray and black, and that’s what you’ll receive. Paint it in brighter colors and that’s what you’ll get too. The choice is yours, and yours alone. Choose wisely.

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What can I say, I’m a self-help junkie.

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A New Year Blessing

May you play more, laugh more, love more, live more, give more, receive more, and celebrate more!
May you open to the vast possibilities and boundless love and wisdom of your grander truer self.
May the doors to your brightest futures swing wide open.
May you know the full extent of your worth and deserving and open to receive all that your heart desires.
May gifts, synchronicities, serendipities and successes dawn effortlessly in your world.
May you connect to and experience more of the love, beauty and light that you are.
May you sparkle and gleam with merriment and magic.
May your laughter refresh the world daily, brightening all those around you, including yourself.
May you know that you are loved, loving and loveable, ever and always.
May you enjoy a blessed and happy life, a life you truly LOVE!

With thanks to Aine Belton.

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